For those of you that found this blank, sorry. Hit the button too soon.
Is it wrong to know what you want in a family and then stick to it? I recently posted an invitation, I guess, for families matching our criteria and got tons of responses from others than are not what we would be looking for. I kindly answered back that I was sorry but they weren't the type of family we were looking for, and got really nasty responses. I was told I am TOO picky by some, cursed at by others, and also told I should not have even bothered to respond if they weren't what we were looking for. I thought I was being nice by not leaving them hanging, but I guess I don't understand all the nuances of adoption yet.
So, for those of you that have placed, is it wrong to know what you want and only search for that type of family? To me, it seems more reasonable to put it all out there and save everyone time. Am I wrong to feel this way?