Rules of the Forums at AdoptionVoices.com
These rules apply to any message boards, chat rooms, e-mail
discussion lists, free-email, or any other community websites or
services ("Community Websites") operated by Adoption Media, LLC.
("AdoptionVoices.com").
1. Respectful Participation Required: While we encourage
members to share from their experiences, we do ask that you do so
in a manner that is both kind and respectful to the person you are
responding to. Please remember that adoption is a very emotional
topic for most all of our participants in one way or another. There
is a big difference between offering a differing opinion and
kicking the dog while its down. We ask that all members be
sensitive to the differing emotions in adoption and not use the
forums as a platform to promote an agenda which is not supportive
of our members or adoption.
2. No personal attacks: Personal attacks of any kind, public
or private, will not be tolerated. AdoptionVoices.com chat rooms,
message boards and journals are intended to be a positive, safe
place for everyone. You are welcome to disagree with a member, but
calling them names or flaming their character is not allowed. If
you have a personal issue to discuss with a member, please take it
off the boards and discuss it via PM.
3. Photo and Video Sharing: Because of the nature of the
internet, we ask that you not share images or video recordings that
contain full frontal nudity, regardless of the nature. Tastefully
done artistic shots are welcome, but must be 'family friendly'.
Please keep in mind, any and all images and videos shared on
AdoptionVoices.com are open to the public and can be viewed by
anyone.
4. No profanity: Vulgarities, obscenities, name-calling,
character assassinations or mockery are not allowed on any of the
AdoptionVoices.com community of websites. While there are
appropriate topics of a mature nature, the vocabulary used needs to
remain family friendly.
5. Solicitation of expectant parents: AdoptionVoices.com is
NOT a place for adoptive parents and adoption professionals to
solicit expectant parents. With the amount of traffic we have at
AdoptionVoices.com, potential birthparents get "pounced on" from
dozens of different people if this rule is not strictly observed.
We are committed to making AdoptionVoices.com a place where
potential birthparents feel safe. It is not appropriate for
adoption professionals or hopeful parents to post "I can help"
messages or links/website addresses for potential birth parents to
visit or to send this type of e-mail or private message to
potential birth parents. Additionally, it isn't appropriate to
respond to a potential birth parents message with an email address
and ask them to contact you that way.
6. Caution to expectant parents considering adoption: Are
you pregnant and considering adoption? For your safety, we strongly
recommend that you do not select adoptive parents or an adoption
professional via social networking sites like AdoptionVoices.com.
We have no way of knowing which parents on the site are qualified
to adopt, and which professionals are reputable. Visit
ParentProfiles.com, a service of Adoption Profiles, LLC, to find
information on hundreds of hopeful adoptive parents who have each
met the requirements to adopt in their state. Visit
AdoptionDirectory.com to find an adoption professional.
7. Treatment of Moderators & Administrators: Any form of
moderator or administrator harassment, including insults, personal
attacks and character assassination done either in public or via
private message can result in a ban of your account. If you
disagree with actions taken by the moderating team, the proper
procedure for voicing that disagreement is via Private Message or
Email. For privacy reasons we can not and will not discuss the
reason someone else's account was banned or removed, either in
public or in private. Moderating decisions are made based on a
number of factors, and the action that resulted in the moderating
decision is often no longer available for public view. It is
inappropriate for users to create threads denouncing the actions of
the moderating team and doing so will result in further moderator
action, up to and including account banning.
8. Regarding Minors: Identifying information about minors
(especially foster children) should never be posted. The minimum
age for the release of information in all fifty states is at least
eighteen, therefore the use of the site to search for someone under
the age if eighteen is prohibited. Additionally if you are adopting
from a public or privatized foster care system, either domestically
or internationally, please remember to respect the foster parent’s
privacy by not posting their identifying information openly on the
forums.
9. Excessive Posting & Self Promotion: Please limit the
number of identical posts to the most relevant three groups. More
than three duplicate messages comes across as spammy. In addition
to limiting the number of identical posts to three, we also ask
that you not use the site to 'self promote' your personal blog or
website. If you have addressed a topic that is specifically related
to a current discussion and you'd like to direct a user to that
post, that's fine. However, it is inappropriate to post links to
your site/blog throughout the site in order to increase your
reach/traffic.
10. No Solicitation or Marketing: Self promotion of adoption
services (products) is not allowed anywhere on AdoptionVoices.com.
This includes posting of available situations or promotion of
hopeful adoptive parents. AdoptionVoices.com offers a variety of
advertising and marketing solutions to meet all types of budgets.
If you would like more information on how you can advertise on
AdoptionVoices.com, please send an email to
sales@familyads.com.
11. Moderation, Editing and Banning: AdoptionVoices.com
reserves the right to edit, delete or otherwise moderate any
postings made to its community of sites without warning or
explanation. Moderators regularly check the site for inappropriate
messages and material. Messages containing such material will be
deleted or edited. Members who require moderation may be banned
without warning or explanation.