I think it is a shame the way some movie stars ect. have a big deal made out of their adopting children from overseas. What happened to those children here that need homes? How about those foster children who want a family so bad? Why in the world can't they seem to see that? I know these questions will never really have answers. But gosh darn it, it really makes me mad. There are so many kids out there that need homes and so few homes. I'm not trying to be mean but don't you have to take of you…
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Added by shannon clark on March 14, 2010 at 10:52am —
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I'm currently learning how to do podcasts so I can add them to my web site. The first pc will be on the topic of adopting a child after s/he has already been through one or two adoption breakdowns. My guest will be a mom of many who has adopted 6 children from previously failed adoptions. My second guest will be speaking on sensory integration, a topic that is relevant to many of us who have adopted children with fasd. I hope to have the first one done by the end of April, and then get my speed…
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Added by Brenda McCreight on March 12, 2010 at 2:58pm —
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I had an interesting experience with orange juice the other day. If you need a good laugh today, you can read about it on Dillon’s blog at www.dillonadopt.blogspot.com
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Added by Cherri Walrod on March 12, 2010 at 11:21am —
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Parenting the Adopted Child: Tweens, Teens and Beyond:
A six week course involving self-reflection and response writing and focuses on teaching you how to identify and address the issues that your adopted child struggles with.
Primary issues of loss, grief, and identity will be examined and explored in depth so that you can better support your adopted child in the transition from child to tween and teen.
More information on class, dates, a
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Added by Judy on March 11, 2010 at 8:37am —
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When I tell people that I was reconnected with my birth father sometimes they say "Oh so you found your real family?"
This makes me think, what is your REAL family? Is it the people you grow up with or the people who are related to you, or maybe both?
"Losing ones family obligous us t
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Added by Nelson Ward de Witt on March 10, 2010 at 9:55pm —
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My Cousin and I are thinking about starting our own adoption agency. We would love any input you may have .We are doing some research to see what we need to do.
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Added by Regina Buckmiller on March 9, 2010 at 10:44pm —
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We’ve come up with a simple adoption fundraiser that will allow friends and family to donate to your adoption funding while also sharing with your potential birthmom all the reasons your supporters
feel you are the right family to adopt!
While we’d love the opportunity to have you in our waiting families at Everlasting Adoptions, you do not have to be contracted with Everlasting Adoptions to use our adoption fund
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Added by Everlasting Adoptions on March 9, 2010 at 7:42pm —
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It was an ordinary day. My youngest daughter and I had gone to the local store for our weekly shopping. We both enjoyed these occasions to not only be together but also to experience the fun of buying food.
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Added by Sharon Beth Brani on March 9, 2010 at 1:15pm —
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I wasn’t going to blog about Haitian orphans again. Really, I wasn’t.
I figured I had worn my audience thin on the subject; it was time to
move on. My resolve wavered, but held firm even when last Friday’s
mail brought
Time Magazine and the
Wall Street Journal both
running stories on the “Haitian orphan crisis”. But after read…
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Added by Dawn Davenport on March 9, 2010 at 12:53pm —
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I think something's missing from the collective "openness in adoption"
discussion, and I think it's something we can't afford to miss. It's
this: before it's anything else, openness is a state of mind.
True
openness is acknowledging and respecting the whole of the adoption
experience. It's inviting in the entirety of adoption and really
meaning it.
For adoptive parents it means so much more than pictures and letters and annual visits with birth family.
It means not j…
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Added by Sally Bacchetta on March 8, 2010 at 11:22am —
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We've officially launched One Hundred Good Wishes!
www.onehundredgoodwishes.com/ is now available to
adoptive families who are in process of adopting and are home-study approved!
One Hundred Good Wishes is a FREE fundraising web-based tool for adoptive families wishing to raise partial or full support for their adoptions. We understand the significant financial challenges of…
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Added by Courtney Johnson on March 6, 2010 at 8:26pm —
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I'm giving away a signed copy of my book, What I Want My Adopted Child to Know: An Adoptive Parent's Perspective. Enter the drawing at my blog
www.theadoptiveparent.blogspot.com.
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Added by Sally Bacchetta on March 6, 2010 at 12:44pm —
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I’m a book person, always have been, and I imagine that when my sight fails I will request the companionship of someone who wouldn’t mind reading to me; books on tape just don’t smell the same.
Anyhow, I turned to a book I found shortly after I had begun working with hospice. I knew Kubler-Ross worked extensively with death/dying/grief and I liked the fact that this books title had ‘life’ in it. Life Lessons (Kubler-Ross & Kessler). I finished it a few months ago, but I a
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Added by D. Batchelor on March 5, 2010 at 5:35am —
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we live in alabama and we are hoping to adopt
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Added by joy anderton on March 3, 2010 at 2:31pm —
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I’ve been asked a lot recently how I feel about the growing number of adoption pleas we see for kids who are almost turning 14 and aging out of the international adoption process. Some people have written me
that they feel it is wrong to make a child start over at age 13 or 14, having
to learn a new language and not really understanding what it means to live in a
family. Many have expressed concern that the kids will be leaving the
friends they have had their whole lives, wh
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Added by Amy Eldridge on March 2, 2010 at 10:25am —
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Giving away a copy of Sally Bacchetta's new book…
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Added by Anna Mitchell on March 1, 2010 at 11:00am —
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Obsess much.... Yes I may be obsessing over the wedding. I mean, what girl wouldn't? Right? I seriously did not get any sleep last night, but 1 hour. Oh, my! I kept going on over my head what I want to do with the wedding. I have a lot of it written down. I just keep coming up with more and more. Maybe I should be a wedding plann…
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Added by Carol Marie on February 28, 2010 at 9:46pm —
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A friend of mine posted this on another forum. I love the message it has, and how accurately in conveys the feelings of an adoptive mother...
There are women that become mothers without effort, without
thought, without patience or loss and though they are good mothers and
love their children, I know that I will be better.I will be better not b…
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Added by Mary Boyle on February 28, 2010 at 5:37pm —
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Posted below are the Introduction and Chapter 1 of my book project, When Rain Hurts. Please visit
http://whenrainhurts.wordpress.com to read/review the entire project, which includes photos. Each chapter of the book is preceded by a journal entry, which provides a current verbal snapshot for comparison against the backstory of our adoption journey. Thanks for reading!
PS: I apologize for the crazy formatting - I do
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Added by Mary Greene on February 26, 2010 at 8:30pm —
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It has been a year, and we are in the process of renewing our home study. I can't believe it's been a whole year since we started this journey already. I'd love to hear from you about advice to keep the anticipation in this journey. We were on fire last year! But it seems like it just isn't what it used to be. We've had two disappointments during this last year. Anticipation, but then frustration. It wasn't meant to be. I wish each of the situations had worked out, and unfortunately, one ended i…
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Added by Karla Lohaus-Fast on February 23, 2010 at 11:10pm —
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