"I don't know how close you are with your adoptive father, but I always feel better when I'm honest with them.. bottling it up is never a good idea. I hope you find someone you feel you can talk to about all of this."
"I found out by accident too and I was really young, don't remember how old. But on 1/1 this yr I just found my birth fam and its been awesome! I don't know what to tell you, part of me says don't tell him but another side of me…"
"I found out by accident too when I was 7 years old. It's devastating and it can really affect your life in a major way. I would definitely see someone professional like I should have done.
There's no shame it it at all…"
I just found out that I was adopted, I am 19 now. I wasn't even supposed to find out, it was an accident. I found the adoption documents and I now I feel so weird. My mom died 2 years ago(adoptive mom) and I have just begun to over come that and heal and I find out about this. I know who my biological parents are. They are my parents' university friends and I've grown up knowing them all my life but when I found out that they were my real parents, i wasn't happy at all. I don't like them(not…See More