"I don't know how close you are with your adoptive father, but I always feel better when I'm honest with them.. bottling it up is never a good idea. I hope you find someone you feel you can talk to about all of this."
"I found out by accident too and I was really young, don't remember how old. But on 1/1 this yr I just found my birth fam and its been awesome! I don't know what to tell you, part of me says don't tell him but another side of me…"